Is it the first time in your life
Or is it just another one-night stand
Do you wanna make a fool of me
Just like you do it to all those other guys

Now I'm leading your life on my own on these days
And I don't want to mess with no woman
Get me out on your skin
No, that's hard. I can see
But you're back to save your love, but you can't

Give me up, oh, give me up

Oh, give me up, oh, give me up

You got this on your mind
For love isn't sin, I just don't have no time
I'm telling you again and again
You'd better stop this playing on my mind

Take an intermit stand cause you don't have a clue
Now I'm reading off time before you
Shout it out on the roof as you must understand
I got somebody else on my mind

Give me up...

AFTER THE LOVE HAS GONE - Earth, Wind and Fire Lyrics

Are you sometimes dating?
Here's how to train my dating skills.
In order to build up confidence while I'm leading particular lady, I need to be objective and practical.
The best way to attain it is me, being a cooker and also a gourmet. If I'm interested in cooking, I'd also be interested in Gordon Ramsey. Then I'll seek some nice restaurant in town. One star, two star, and so on till five star, my knowledge gains fatter and fatter. Eventually, I can't wait spreading those out to anybody in the town.

I dumped a cup of flour into the glass bowl. 
I dumped two packages of different pasta into a stainless bowl.

By a little continuous sip he had sake, piercing pieces of boiled fish by chopsticks and brought them into his toothless mouth, showed me his contentment as the evening dusk turned into darker.
Aside from him, I was crazy about surface grilled raw fish much more than ordinary communication at an ordinary tavern. 

'What did you eat last night? You look so fine today.'
'Italian!' 'Spagetti, and KFC chicken.'

'Tavern?' He asked me.
'Yeah, at that place where we joined the first time before the evening, and drank beer.' 
I replied.
'I miss that surface grilled by ten percent raw fish, 'tataki' to eat. I mean it.' I added.
'Okay dude, you were with your eyes grinning at that counter, facing chefs cooking
 in front of you.' He said in a calm tone.
'By the way, I've never imagined of me being capable of having affair with a girl working
 at the butcher shop.' ..

It seems to me going out and visiting some places are same as building up a pile of comedies, 
different from ordinary scales. 

I cooked three items for two hours in each evening like a madman.